ex:ample
so there’s this girl i am friends with who was in a relationship with this guy for a little over a year, but towards the end of their relationship, her boyfriend wasn’t the same person as he was at the beginning. he became manipulative, controlling, and abusive. making her cry and telling her to shut up when she does. calling her derogatory things. she eventually broke up with him, which was great because she wouldn’t have to deal with all of that mess anymore.
but then she started talking to him again. i am so disappointed with her. i understand being friends with an ex, but never being friends with the person who abused you for half a year. it’s so sickening. i keep telling her that it’s not okay and that she shouldn’t talk to him but she doesn’t listen. she’s also starting to be a different person. i don’t like it at all but there’s nothing that can be done if she doesn’t take the advice.